Settimio Monteverde
  Key words: bone marrow transplant; ethical decision making; palliative care; time
  Departing from a contemporary novel about a boy who is going to die from leukaemia,
  this article shows how the dimension of time can be seen as a morally relevant category
  that bridges both ‘dramatic’ issues, which constitute the dominant focus of bioethical
  deci sion making, and ‘undramatic’ issues, which characterize the lived experience of
  patients, relatives and health care workers. The moral task of comparing the various time
  dimensions of a given situation is explained as an act of ‘synchronizing’ the clocks. Ethical
  sensitivity and competence are presented as core skills that allow a continuity of care in
  situations where dramatic issues seem to be resolved, but undramatic ones are still not
  addressed. A nine-step model of shared decision making is proposed as an approach to
  identifying critical junctures within an illness trajectory and synchronizing the clocks of
  the involved actors.
  The dramatics of ethics
  Ethical decision making is often seen as a dramatic process in which crucial steps have
  to be taken that always become a matter of life and death. This is obvious when decisions
  have to be made about withdrawing a brain-dead patient from a ventilator or
  with holding antibiotics from a bedridden patient who suffers from advanced stage
  Alzheimer’s disease. Although they are not the only ones that shape the moral work of
  contemporary health care delivery, such ‘dramatic’ issues arise as dominant themes in
  bioethical casuistry and research.1 They look for a balance between ethical, legal and
  societal claims and the goals of medicine as an enterprise that serves humankind. In
  order to prevent having to make dramatic decisions, a huge amount of policies, clinical
  guidelines for ethical decision making and institutional forms of ethics consultation
  have been formulated. They are either an expression of an existing consensus or, where
  such a consensus cannot be assumed, of procedural pathways that foster a balanced
  moral reasoning. Policies and guidelines concern topics such as physician-assisted
  suicide, access to right-to-die organizations in health care institutions (in countries
  where this is legally permitted or condoned2), declaration of death, distributive justice
  in the allocation of scarce health care resources, participation of patients and healthy
  Address for correspondence: Settimio Monteverde, Seminar am Bethesda, Fachstelle Ethik,
  Gellertstrasse 144, Postfach 4020 Basel, Switzerland. Tel: +41 61 315 21 21;
  E-mail: settimio.monteverde@bethesda.ch
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  people in biomedical research, genetic counselling, etc.3–5 They are addressed to patients
  by protecting their rights in various situations, but also to health care workers, acknowledging
  the moral responsibility inherent in their daily work.
  From a narrow point of view, ethics is seen as a way of thinking and acting exclusively
  in dramatic settings. Testimonies from early nurse members of ethics committees
  described that they felt excluded. They reported their first experiences on such committees
  more as ‘survival’ than active participation in decisional processes.6 Findings
  from qualitative and quantitative research show that nurses find themselves acting
  not only in dramatic scenarios as described by classic bioethics, but also in silent or
  apparently ‘undramatic’ scenarios that are only seldom the subject of explicit ethical
  discourse.7 These are issues that are present in daily practice, shaping the moral work
  of nurses and contributing to the ‘relational construction of identity’.8 If addressed,
  they lead to significant patient and professional satisfaction; if not, there is growing
  evidence that they lead to professional resignation and distress.9,10
  Dramatic and undramatic issues: the double focus of nursing ethics
  Nursing ethics had to focus on dramatic issues as a part of daily nursing practice
  shared with other health care professionals. Yet, nursing highlighted particularly the
  undramatic issues, such as the role of relationships and gender in decision-making
  processes,11–13 the distribution of decisional power, and the mechanisms of empowerment
  and disempowerment of patients, relatives and health care workers14 because
  nursing is highly influenced by the caring approach as a normative theory of ethics.
  There are many settings in today’s health care practice where dramatic issues seem
  to be dominant, such as in bone marrow transplants, emergency rooms or intensive
  care units. Nurses work in a context of prima facie settled priorities in order to preserve
  patients’ lives or to recognize circumstances when death can be allowed. Distinguishing
  dramatic from undramatic issues may be useful in moments when priorities have
  to be set in the course of an illness trajectory in order to discuss treatment goals. This
  distinction should not imply hidden presumptions about their relevance or irrelevance
  from a moral point of view. Owing to proximity to the patient, the moral challenge
  of nurses consists in special attention to undramatic issues concerning patients’ lived
  experiences. Nurses recognize patients’ strategies of coping with life-threatening illnesses
  and attempts to reconstruct and preserve personal identity, connecting past,
  present and future in a perspective of continuity and growth.15 In such a perspective,
  undramatic issues are deemed of equal moral relevance; that is, they are able to shape
  the nurse–patient relationship and to guarantee a continuum of care that is independent
  of therapeutic goals. I will consider a narrative approach to this question. Departing
  from a novel about a boy who is going to die from leukaemia, I want to show how time
  can be seen as a morally relevant category that bridges both dramatic and undramatic
  or silent moral aspects of the work of nurses as well as doctors. This claim is based
  on Storch and Kenny, who point out that: ‘Medicine and nursing share a common
  history of bringing knowledge and skill to the care of sick people, but with distinct
  cultures of professionalism’ (p. 483).16 A broader notion of knowledge and skills is
  here presupposed, including a holistic view of medical, psychosocial and spiritual
  topics. These are seldom objects of bioethical decision making and are therefore
  deemed undramatic, but they shape patients’ experience and ability to cope with lifethreatening
  illnesses. For health care workers, undramatic issues are highly relevant
  because they open a hermeneutical window to patients’ experiences.
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  Oscar and the importance of time
  The French philosopher and novelist Eric-Emmanuel Schmitt depicts in his novel, Oscar
  and the lady in pink, the journey of a 10-year-old boy who suffers from leukaemia.17 All
  curative attempts have failed, including bone marrow transplants. He spends his last
  days in the children’s hospital. He knows that he has to die, and so do the nurses,
  doctor and his parents. Nevertheless, there is a conspiracy of silence hiding from Oscar
  how things really are. Granny Rose, an old lady and a member of the volunteers known
  as the ‘pink ladies’, visits him every day of his remaining 10 days of life. Two destinies
  now intertwine, and they become friends, but they become also teacher and student
  to each other. ‘Granny Rose, I feel like no one’s telling me I’m going to die.’ ‘Why
  would you want people to tell you, Oscar, if you already know?’ (p. 9). Granny Rose
  advises Oscar to keep a diary and to write to God about every day of his remaining life.
  ‘Starting today, you’ll treat each day as if it counted for 10 years.’ ’So, in 12 days’ time,
  I’ll be 130!’ ‘Yes, can you imagine it?’ ‘Granny Rose kissed me ... then she left’ (p. 27).
  Oscar follows the advice, and so, in his brief and restricted existence, he lives the peaks
  and troughs of life. He falls in love with Peggy Blue, a little girl who is scheduled for
  cardiac surgery. He initiates one relationship after another and tears down the walls
  of silence between doctors, nurses, parents and other children. The last chapter of his
  diary is the shortest: ‘Dear God, a hundred and ten. That’s old. I think I’m starting to
  die’ (p. 86). It is Granny Rose who completes the last pages of the booklet: ‘Dear God,
  the little boy has died. I will always be a lady in pink but I won’t be Granny Rose any
  more. I was only that to him (p. 87).’ Time is relative; the intensity of what we live
  has nothing to do with the measurable chronological extension, for example, minutes,
  days and years. Physics and philosophy share the same findings, as well as theology,
  which focus from temporality to eternity. We live at the same time, but we also live
  in different times. When there are no more stem cell transplants to offer to Oscar, the
  language of treatment grows silent, the finitude of life becomes dramatically obvious
  and the ambivalence of always being busy when entering the sickroom disappears. At
  first, from the perspective of nurses and doctors, everything important has been said,
  there are no more dramatic decisions to be made, only to wait and let nature take its
  course. Just then, Oscar begins to live: he expresses in poetic terms the elements that are
  considered essential to recognize meaning in life, which becomes daily more important.
  As fears rose and hopes disappeared, Oscar experienced the gifts of friendship and
  love, the preoccupations of daily life, even caring for an adopted old teddy bear.
  The times we live and the clocks we carry
  When no more dramatic decisions had to be taken and everything important seemed to
  have been said, communication stopped, but Oscar’s growth continued. Although he
  struggled with the decay of his body, in his last 10 days he is experiencing life, and not
  just waiting for death. The dichotomy between the two perspectives of ‘experiencing
  life’ and ‘waiting for death’ is the dominant theme in which the relationships of Oscar
  with his parents, the ward nurses and the doctors are depicted. From a moral point
  of view, one consequence of this dichotomy is that his needs are neither understood
  nor met by health care workers or relatives, with the exception of Granny Rose. If the
  metaphor that we live at different times is continued, it is possible to say that we also
  carry with us different clocks. These clocks tell us what time it is: they orientate us
  and tell us what we have to do in specific circumstances. These clocks are made up
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  of our values, created by education, scientific knowledge, professional virtues, and
  cultural and religious beliefs. For Oscar’s doctors and nurses, his hourglass has nearly
  run through, but he himself had just begun to experience life; he even spent one night
  in Peggy Blue’s room and was not impressed when the ward nurse shouted and pulled
  him out the next morning.
  Ethical sensitivity and competence
  A first ethical stance may lead us to realize that we live in various times. Not only do we
  each carry different clocks, but our own clocks vary in different circumstances. Yet for
  the quality of human relationships it is essential that we understand in which time the
  people around us live. This is what is meant by ethical sensitivity.18 The professionals
  around Oscar did not realize that, after the dramatic decision not to proceed to a further
  bone marrow transplant, Oscar lived in just a few days the undramatic and silent highs
  and lows of a whole lifetime, and experienced an abundance of impressions that prepared
  him for his imminent death. Unfortunately, none among the doctors, nurses and
  his parents was able to read the face of this clock; only Granny Rose did that.
  A second stance, ethical competence, is the essence of ethical reflection because
  it can lead to synchronizing the various clocks by recognizing the values that are at
  stake and preparing any course of action.19 Sensitivity to what we hear and feel, but
  also competence in facilitating good decisions, are the main ethical skills required for
  daily medical and nursing practice. Both are necessary for understanding the ‘ethical
  metastory’ that precedes any nursing action. Metastories can be shaped by dramatic
  changes in a person’s life. They can also be shaped by silent changes or by convictions
  and values that are not subject to change. They are ways of putting things together,
  connecting experiences and constructing meaning. Nurses can be active parts in this
  construction of meaning.
  When someone, such as a patient, tells a nurse a story, however short, this nurse and
  patient together create a bigger story, however limited. This metastory enables the listening,
  reflection, challenge, and perhaps re-ordering of values and beliefs that are called for and
  which will constitute the telos [goal]’ (pp. 65–66).20
  Thus, both ethical sensitivity and ethical competence are rooted in the relationship
  as the basis and vehicle for ethical action. Using the clock metaphor, ethical sensitivity
  and competence are ways of recognizing what time patients’ and professionals’ clocks
  show, and what steps can be taken to bring them closer together.
  Reasons and values
  Time is pivotal, not only for understanding which goals medicine should pursue following
  an individual course of illness, but also for discovering how individuals cope
  with illness and become able to develop new perspectives.21 The combination of both
  dimensions is essential for understanding the context of such decision making, where
  the dramatic issues are quickly solved, but the silent ones remain unanswered because
  nobody feels able to speak for the persons who experience them. Oscar proved that
  this applies also to a child. Through fiction, the author used his own experiences with
  illness and the silence of an intimidated world faced with the life-threatening condition
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  of a child. Patients, relatives, doctors, nurses and co-workers all lived in varying times
  and argued in different ways.22
  Reasons are never actor neutral; explanations and justifications are rooted in
  personal, medical, scientific, professional and cultural values. They make evident why
  we think and act as we do. There cannot be any ‘medical’ reasoning existing independently
  from the reasoning of the patient or the nurse, because every ‘set’ of reasons
  stands for a perspective on a certain situation. The task of ethics is to bring these perspectives
  together, to initiate a dialogue by considering and comparing values and
  ways of reasoning. In the case of Oscar, this did not happen. The clocks had not been
  synchronized. It was the missing dialogue that caused him suffering, loneliness and
  exclusion from the adult world, with the exception of Granny Rose, and not the fact
  that he was dying from an incurable illness.
  Synchronizing dramatic and undramatic issues
  around life and death
  For little Oscar, the dramatic situation in which different time notions collided is the
  situation of relapse of the disease. The term ‘relapse’ indicates a falling back, stumbling,
  not fighting any more against an enemy and even yielding to the enemy. This martial
  metaphor is not free of a sense of guilt: the patient does not prove to be a good fighter
  despite the efforts of professionals or of a stem cell donor. Generally, the challenge
  of relapses in the haemato-oncological context is that it forces professionals to make
  dramatic decisions, to look at the next step and to search for co-operation with patients.23
  This decision has direct short-term consequences for the survival of patients. There is
  no delay possible. In such situations, even the definition of palliative care formulated
  by the Word Health Organization is not much help: ‘Palliative Care provides relief
  from pain and other distressing symptoms, affirms life and regards dying as a normal
  process, and intends neither to hasten nor to prolong death.’24
  Is it possible that dying in the bone marrow transplant context can be seen as ‘normal’?
  When are we hastening or prolonging dying? Does it not depend on the clock we work
  by, which tells us whether it is ‘too early’ or ‘too late’, whether the patient is too well
  to die or too sick to live? Objective data are based on clinical experience and research
  and refined risk assessments exist. Yet, every answer to this question that is apparently
  objective and scientifically sound is also a matter of values and therefore an expression
  of silent issues that hide behind the dramatic ones. The underlying assumption of the
  World Health Organization definition of palliative care is that there is a normal process
  of dying that should not be hastened or prolonged. How does the notion of normality
  of the process of dying fit into the bone marrow transplant context? Life and death are
  mostly a matter of decisions to treat or not to treat. A large European study about endof-
  life decisions in intensive care units showed that 70% of all intensive care unit deaths
  were preceded by a decision either to discontinue life-sustaining therapy or to refrain
  from commencing it at all.25 When the means for prolonging life are available, death
  is primarily a matter of decisions and not of ‘natural processes’ that occur without
  human interference. At first sight, this finding is neither good nor bad; it is simply the
  consequence of the medicalization of life. It shows that behind every dramatic decision
  about life and death are silent decisions about the value of life, the patient’s will, and
  the search for meaning within suffering.
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  lllich criticized medicalization as an act of incapacitating citizens.26 However, this
  assertion fails to recognize that society itself creates myths, hopes and fears about
  longevity and a life devoid of suffering. From a constructivist point of view, medicine
  can be seen as an enterprise that strives to get close to the vision society has about its
  goals. We should therefore be considered victims of medicalization only as far as we are
  considered victims of our own visions. There are not victims on one side and authors
  on the other; we are victims and authors at the same time. This closeness of hopes
  and fears becomes particularly evident in the haemato-oncological context, where
  Oscar’s journey takes place. It is not the dramatic fact that our life is medicalized and
  depending on decisions about technology, drugs, treatment, etc. that is ethically controversial.
  Rather it is the fact that we have the moral obligation to continue to care once
  dramatic decisions have been taken. In Fry and Johnstone’s words, ‘the nurse promotes
  an environment in which the human rights, values, customs and spiritual beliefs of
  the individual, family and community are respected’ (p. 212). 27 Thus the nursing profession
  has a genuine moral calling to consider not only dramatic issues concerning life
  and death, but also silent issues and ‘soft’ skills such as communication and patient
  empowerment, and also the organization of work. Only by considering both at the
  same time can nurses achieve a balanced moral reasoning and a synchronization of the
  clocks whose dials they read.28
  Dramatic decisions and the continuity of care
  For the assessment of dramatic decisions, as in Oscar’s case, to refrain from further
  stem cell transplantation, there are classic, well-described pathways. When there is a
  therapeutic rationale the patient can give informed consent and the required means
  and skills are available, and stem cell therapy may be performed, but also the treatment
  of opportunistic infections or blood transfusions. In dramatic situations, the main
  questions are:29,30
  • What is the goal we want to achieve? What is the benefit to the patient of this treatment?
  What are the risks and burdens being imposed?
  • What are the information level and will to live of the patient? What are his or her
  values? Which interventions are needed to make him or her able to decide? What are
  the benefits, risks and burdens of reaching these goals?
  If a dramatic decision has been taken (e.g. that there is no rationale for continuing a
  particular therapy) there remains a moral duty to offer the patient adequate symptom
  control and care. In the bone marrow transplant context, there is no moral distinction
  between a relapse-related or a transplant-related death, as in situations of graft-versushost-
  disease or aplastic pneumonia. In such situations the cause of death is always the
  illness itself.31 The British Medical Association32 and the Swiss Academy of Medical
  Sciences33 repeatedly state that there is no moral obligation to begin or continue lifesustaining
  therapy when the course of illness shows that further treatment is not
  appropriate. Why then do nurses experience difficulties in such situations? Why can
  communication within the team be so difficult? I do not think that there are ‘sentimental’
  nurses on one hand and ‘rational’ doctors on the other. Rather, there are different
  ‘rationalities’, that is to say, different ways of giving good reasons and explanations for
  personal opinions and behaviour.
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  Within the framework of nursing action, nurses waver between two fundamental
  intuitions that arise spontaneously.34 At best, they lead to reflection and dialogue; at
  worst, they lead to moral distress. The first intuition is that, when caring for severely
  ill people, we have first to give time to enhance a ‘natural course’ of life or to permit a
  natural course of death. The second intuition is that we first have to alleviate present
  suffering and avoid future suffering. This implies that we will not impose the burdens
  of a risky treatment without a possible benefit. We may intervene and in our wish to
  alleviate suffering we may also shorten life. Should we wait, giving nature a further
  chance, or act to relieve suffering? The contradiction of these two moral obligations
  char acterizes situations of relapse and the setting of priorities in deciding about the
  next step. They explain the moral challenge of dramatic contexts of decision making.
  Withdrawing a life-sustaining treatment often seems to be morally less controversial
  because it is the course of the illness that seems to determine the logic of treatment. We
  gave time; we did our best; we offered further treatment in situations of relapse. Now,
  the condition of the patient is worsening and there is evidence that the illness trajectory
  cannot be influenced by treatment and ‘nature’ seems to intervene. The underlying
  assumption is that any further treatment will be futile. Considering a course of action as
  futile can be scientifically or statistically proved and we may also reach a consensus
  about it. This always includes a value judgement of a given situation, that is, the remaining
  quality of a given life.35
  Withholding life-sustaining treatment is the opposite of giving time: we are not
  willing to grant further time to achieve an unreachable goal. By limiting curative treatment,
  we set a different goal: we want to give a human response to suffering because
  the underlying assumption is that every further treatment will be futile.36 A value
  judgement of a given situation or life is made. The price of following this intuition
  is the feeling that we cause death and provoke an unnatural or perhaps premature
  ending of an individual’s life.
  In 1969, Kübler-Ross formulated a vision of a patient-centred approach in palliative
  care, with a network of different professional skills in which the words ‘death’ and
  ‘dying’ were not marginalized.37 The transition between cure and palliation was not
  yet part of the self-understanding of modern medicine, although it was part of its daily
  practice and experience. The presence of suffering, death and dying could never be
  eliminated, and medicine never aimed to do so. It was only the concept of palliative
  care that opened eyes to more research and development of knowledge and skills in
  this field. A continuation was suggested between cure and care, which was a dramatic
  change in the logic of treatment for patients who were like homeless people when
  curative options stopped.38 In these classic situations (many of them oncological), the
  underlying assumption is that there is a transition, and that there is time to go from
  cure to palliation.39
  Transitions in the goals of care
  In the bone marrow transplant setting and situations of relapse, however, this linearity
  does not exist. Life and death are matters of decisions from the beginning of the
  first symptoms of leukaemia. We always give time or take time away. There is no
  transition, as palliative care suggests; but there are many transitions from curative to
  palliative. We often do not know under which banner we carry out a treatment. Some
  of the transitions are invisible, small and silent. There may be curative islands in an
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  apparently palliative context. An initial good response to stem cell therapy and the successful
  treatment of stomatitis are important examples, as are the treatments of pain,
  anxiety and psychological suffering. Disagreements between doctors and nurses about
  the goals of the therapy they want to offer to the patient is often the first source of
  conflict among team members. Such conflicts arise when the patient’s perspective is
  not included.40
  Continuous relationship awareness
  As Oscar’s story shows, after the verdict that nothing more can be done for him,
  clocks begin to run separately, communication stops, and the embarrassment of the
  parents, doctors and nurses grows. They do not realize what Oscar is experiencing in
  his remaining days and the intensity of what he is living with Granny Rose. What are
  the reasons for this failure? From a medical point of view, there seems not to be an
  indication for further treatment, but the silent issues behind these dramatic issues
  are all ignored. Oscar’s capability to cope with this situation is neither strengthened
  nor are his resources acknowledged. Therefore it is not surprising that not a single
  positive professional relationship experience with doctors or nurses is mentioned.
  Although the narrative context is fictional, it is clear that even when dramatic decisions
  have to be taken, silent issues are still of moral relevance and part of professionals’
  commitment in order to guarantee a continuum of care. ‘Data in the literature have
  consistently highlighted major deficiencies, particularly the risk of ‘‘abandonment of
  the patient’’, where DNR [do not resuscitate] orders are given in order to limit the use of
  cardiopulmonary resuscitation’ (p. 351).41 A continuum of care is not only related to the
  physical aspect of care, but to all aspects that shape the nurse–patient relationship.11
  Gilligan coined the term ‘relationship awareness’ in the context of adolescent
  girls.42,43 Translating this into a context of professional ethics, it is possible to describe
  the therapeutic commitment of professionals to remain aware of the silent issues even
  after dramatic issues have disappeared. Patients feel abandoned when there is no
  relationship awareness.44 No matter how dramatic or silent decisional contexts are,
  nurses have the moral obligation to guarantee and/or promote a continuum of care in
  which the needs of patients are at least recognized, responded to and, if possible, met.
  By synchronizing the clocks in this way, nursing ethics discovers its original endeavour
  to point not only to ‘strong themes’ like illness, disease and care options, but also to
  ‘soft themes’ such as the effects of illness, disease and treatment decisions on the life
  of individuals.
  Illness trajectories, critical junctures and
  reassessment
  Every illness trajectory has critical junctures or newly occurring circumstances in
  which a decision about treatment and care has to be made. Usually, critical junctures
  are perceived and described in medical terms. Relapse is a typical critical juncture in
  a bone marrow transplant setting, because it forces a reassessment of treatment; but
  so also are opportunistic infections, severe bleeding, or depression. Critical junctures
  are not only medical occurrences; they range from dramatic situations of relapse to undramatic
  but burdensome social, psychological and spiritual issues. The first and most
  far-reaching critical juncture is the disclosure of the diagnosis itself and the experience
  of a life-threatening illness. The sensitivity to critical junctures considers every medical
  assessment as part of an ethical assessment.
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  Owing to their proximity to the patient, nurses experience at first hand the variety
  of critical junctures when haematology patients are struggling with the implications
  and complications of their illness. Discussing values, rights and duties that are at stake
  is basic to their work. If this is not possible or not desired, moral distress will be the
  consequence. This is also the case for physicians, social workers, psychologists and
  chaplains.
  Critical junctures: steps for shared decision making
  Only models of shared decision making can integrate the particular views described.45
  Such models centre around the patient’s perspective and regard respect for patient
  autonomy as central. When the degree of patient autonomy cannot be assessed or is not
  sufficient to meet the prerequisites of liberty and agency, ways of surrogate decision
  making have to be sought. Shared decision making contextualizes medical facts with
  legal, social, biographical and spiritual values by involving all the relevant actors. In this
  holistic approach all the different clocks by which professionals, patients and relatives
  orientate themselves can be recognized and synchronized. Models of shared decision
  making include round-table or bedside meetings with all the actors involved, but also
  ethics committees or case discussions among experts. The role of nurses is essential in
  such contexts. Owing to their proximity to patients, relatives and doctors, they contribute
  to the visibility of the different clocks of all the involved actors, expressing their values
  in dialogue. When values become visible, a consensus or synchronization of different
  times may succeed. In an acute setting such as haematology, this synchronization may
  consist of the following steps:
  1) Identify critical junctures with all the involved actors and assess their importance
  for them. Are they of the same importance for the patient? If so, have we set the
  right priorities? If not, what consensus can we reach and where do values differ? In
  Oscar’s situation, this first step would have broken the dichotomy of views between
  health care workers and parents (‘He is dying’) and Oscar (‘I am living’).
  2) Evaluate current treatments with all involved actors. What burden does the current
  treatment impose on the patient and what benefits can be expected? For Oscar,
  an evaluation of the current treatment would have implied a break in the wall of
  silence, a discussion about adequate methods of palliation and a sensitivity to his
  unmet needs.
  3) Discuss possible alternatives with the patient and/or surrogates. Is he or she able to
  give consent? Are advance directives available? What were his or her former wishes?
  Are they specific enough and applicable to the current situation? What do we know
  about the presumed will? Thinking about Oscar, this step would have signified that
  Granny Rose and how she approaches Oscar is not part of a kind of conspiracy
  against the established way of approaching patients, but an integrative and essential
  part of it.
  4) Make out the values that are at stake from the perspective of the patient, relatives, surrogates,
  physicians, nurses and co-workers; what is the individual time dimen sion
  for each of them? Where values underlying human behaviour are not expressed,
  human needs cannot be met and the times of these clocks cannot be read. As a
  consequence, in Oscar’s situation, fears, a sense of guilt and betrayed hopes are not
  addressed by the parents or the health care workers, only by Oscar.
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  5) Search for priorities that meet the needs and wishes of the patient and the values of
  the involved actors, including morally relevant medical, legal and cultural facts;
  look for a consensual decision and decide the next step. Reading the different hourglasses
  and recognizing in which time the involved actors live would have permitted
  a continuum of care from the start, planning meaningful interventions for Oscar,
  including Granny Rose, and avoiding a sense of therapeutic abandonment.
  6) Plan possible further critical junctures in the illness trajectory with the patient or the
  surrogate. Describe first in a positive way all the levels of the continuum of care that
  are applicable (measures that may be taken), and then measures that may be withdrawn
  or withheld in case of futility. For Oscar, this step would have given him the
  opportunity to discuss the process of dying and the possibilities of palliative care
  and searching for meaning with the professionals.
  7) Implement the chosen measures within a personalized plan of action.
  8) Evaluate the measures taken with all the actors involved in order to prevent complications
  and enable other patients in similar situations to have similar benefits. In such a
  perspective, Oscar’s situation would not have been considered an isolated incident,
  but a possible trajectory of illness that deserves an adequate human response, also
  from a professional point of view.
  9) Reassess the situation and return to step 1. Although part of professional competence
  and standardized good practice, such a response always has to be related to an individual
  person, following the course of the illness and the needs to cope with it.
  When critical junctures remain unexpressed, ignored or hidden, nothing else can
  be offered to patients but the logic of treatment or an embarrassing silence. In Oscar’s
  words:
  With Peggy Blue I read a lot of the Medical Dictionary. It’s her favourite book. She’s
  fascinated by illnesses and she likes working out which ones she could have later. I looked
  for the words that mattered to me: ‘Life’, ‘Death’, ‘Faith’ and ‘God’. You’re not going to
  believe this but they weren’t in it! Mind you, at least that proves they’re not illnesses – life,
  death, faith and you. Which is good news, really. Still, in a serious book like that there
  should be answers to the most serious questions of all, shouldn’t there? (p. 76).17
  If we do not have answers to the most serious questions, we should at least search
  for them together. This attitude is a small virtue, but it has a large preventive effect on
  professional satisfaction, quality of care, perseverance and professional attrition.46 As
  well as that, this is the core of ethics.
  The moral dimension of time
  An important discovery of nursing ethics in the context of biomedical progress was that
  dramatic and undramatic issues are of equal importance because both shape human
  relationships, the rights and duties of patients, health care workers, institutions and
  society. In mapping the wider context of nursing ethics, Thompson et al. distinguish
  between ‘micro, macho, meso and macro issues’ in the ethics of health care (p. 127).29
  The micro level is the only one where the relationship with the patient is explicitly
  mentioned. The levels do not exist independently of each other, but fit closely together,
  like a Russian doll, with the nurse–patient relationship as the core dimension. As the
  authors note, ‘observation and research in nursing has brought to light the fact that the
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  issues perceived as important by practitioners and patients may be quite different from
  those perceived as important by the public’ (p. 127).29 Following Oscar’s experience, in
  a pluralistic, intercultural and fast-changing world there is seldom unanimity about
  which questions are the most serious. In a health care context that is continuously
  reflecting about its aims and goals, serious questions will hardly decrease. They may
  be dramatic or undramatic, such as demographic changes and the growing need for
  long-term care, the availability of benefits of biomedical progress in a globalized world,
  justice in the distribution of the burdens of human research etc. Ethical sensitivity is the
  core skill to answer this question, making nurses and other health care workers able
  to synchronize the clocks and to recognize the moral dimension of time in their daily
  encounter with patients.
  Conflict of interest statement
  The author declares that there is no conflict of interest
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